i guess it’s just me, but i will never understand how respectfully standing up to a bully is considered a bad thing. i have really enjoyed my time in the one remaining group i’m still a part of.
However, when everyone insists on tip-toeing around a “dominant” that is disrespectful, arrogant, and mean-spirited, it boggles my mind. Granted, i do not know this person in real life. i only know the persona he shows in the group. He demands respect rather than earning it. He browbeats anyone who doesn’t think the way he does.
i know that some of my friends are also friends with him, and that doesn’t bother me. i hope that they will still be my friends after reading this, but i need to vent.
i’ve always considered myself a fair person. i’ve always tried to respect other people’s opinions even if i don’t agree with them. my only problem with this person is that he doesn’t reciprocate.
i used to think that i was an important part of the group, but it would seem that isn’t the case. So i’ve decided to just sit back and watch and see how things progress. my Master thinks i should leave the group, but i’m not quite ready to do that and so far, he isn’t making me.
Okay, i’m done venting and i feel better now.
However, when everyone insists on tip-toeing around a “dominant” that is disrespectful, arrogant, and mean-spirited, it boggles my mind. Granted, i do not know this person in real life. i only know the persona he shows in the group. He demands respect rather than earning it. He browbeats anyone who doesn’t think the way he does.
i know that some of my friends are also friends with him, and that doesn’t bother me. i hope that they will still be my friends after reading this, but i need to vent.
i’ve always considered myself a fair person. i’ve always tried to respect other people’s opinions even if i don’t agree with them. my only problem with this person is that he doesn’t reciprocate.
i used to think that i was an important part of the group, but it would seem that isn’t the case. So i’ve decided to just sit back and watch and see how things progress. my Master thinks i should leave the group, but i’m not quite ready to do that and so far, he isn’t making me.
Okay, i’m done venting and i feel better now.
3 comments:
i know of whom you speak sister dear and yes He does demand respect instead of earning it. This seems to have always been His style. i tend to let Him go in one ear and out the other. If He gets to me, i take it to Master. Problem solved.
i am glad you have not left the group; there are others who are also glad. i pray you do not leave due to this one particular Dom. And i will always be your friend. If a difference of opinion caused me to drop your friendship, was i really one to begin w? And btw-i tend to share your opinion in this matter.
And come down and join me in the background; we can hold our own little conversation and make the others wander what is going on.
If that bully so-called dom continues to act disrespectful to others or you, you will be leaving the group. I am tired of the drama he causes, needlessly.
I completely believe in being tolerant, but I have no tolerance for people who act like an idiot, treat others like they are crap and then demand respect.
I have seen his behavior, and I am embarassed that he called himself a "Master".
your calling him on his behavior was the right thing to do. you and your sisters only have one person to answer to, and that is your Dom or Master.
As long as people are respectful, and I know of NO ONE more respectful that my slave, then there is no need to demand a title and treat others like they are worthless scum.
Ego is a dangerous thing, and that guy has some serious issues. He is a drama queen, and I am not talking about his orientation, but his actions speak loudly.
If he has one more outburst, you will be out of the group. I want you to talk to your friends, but that forum is not a healthy place, and it is not being moderated evenly and properly.
I love you and you did the right thing, and you did it with class. More than I can say for him.
I love you,
Master
Because of disrespectful individuals, and those that thrive on their life's drama and bringing their fellow group members through an un-needed journey behind the drama; refusing suggestions and just choosing instead to complain. i have left all the groups and stick to reading blogs and communicating privately with my friends.
It doesn't mean that i am any better than anyone else i just had to evaluate where my limited online time could best be used.
i applaude you for not putting up with this doms disrespectful attitudes. As we all know people can pretend to be the individual they wish they were in real time life online where no one really knows who they are.
BIG HUGS,
kathleen {SG}
Proud to be called doulos to
Jesus Christ and Sir Geoffrey
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