No Advice Needed

i've spent my fair share of time in the lifestyle. i have pretty much lived every aspect of it there is…in the context of being submissive. i started off with an online/ldr relationship…trying to decide where i "fit". i thought maybe i was just a bedroom submissive, so i started dating men who were into kinky sex. i quickly realized that that wasn't for me. i guess it took me a good year to realize that i really wanted a TPE/APE relationship. In my mind, there was no such thing as too much control.

i don't claim to be an expert on any one aspect of the lifestyle. However, i have lived enough of it to have my opinions. i try never to write in absolutes. my opinions come from my experiences. i also have learned enough, usually from my own bad decisions/experiences, to acquire a 6^th sense when it comes to fakes of both persuasions…Dominant and submissive.

i'm not sure why some people think they can tell me there is no such thing as an absolute Master/slave relationship. my Master is totally in charge. i don't have my own money. i do have my own debit card, but i know if there is something out of the norm that i want to buy, i have to call and ask. i also turn over all receipts to my Master…he's in charge of the money. i can't remember the last time that i asked my Master for something and he said no. i'm a pretty spoiled slave.

Yet, i'm told that my relationship is abusive. i just don't get it. my relationship works for me. i found the Dominant counterpart to my slave side. He wants total control and i want to be totally controlled? How is that bad?

You know, if i don't ask for advice, please don't take it on yourself to offer some. my life is very good so please feel free to leave me alone.